INTRODUCING...

MASTERING
SELF-ACCEPTANCE

A 6-week mini-course to help you become more secure in who you are and what you have to offer, so it feels safer to show up and share that with the world.

If you want your business to be profitable, then you have to be visible.

I’m sorry—but it’s true. People need to know, like and trust you before they’ll buy into you or from you…

…and yet so many entrepreneurs (and wantrepreneurs!) are neglecting to put themselves out there in this way.

  • They worry they aren’t knowledgeable/skilled enough.
  • They worry their products/services aren't valuable enough.
  • And, as a result, worry they won't make sales and that their businesses will fail.

In short, they fear rejection.

And, instead of conquering it, they succumb to it, which totally ruins their chances of success...

tell me, are you...

  • 1 Hiding behind the professional content you create, but not revealing anything about what lies beyond your business in your personal life?
  • 2 Relating to and resonating with other peopleā€™s stories, but feeling that it's too self-indulgent or dramatic to tell your own?
  • 3 Not voicing your opinions in case you're cancelled for them, or people see you as being flakey if you later change your stance?
  • 4 Comparing yourself to others you feel are more educated/experienced than you are and feeling like an impostor?
  • 5 Working on stuff in private, but never presenting your work publicly in case it's criticised and you can't cope?
  • 6 Stuck in a permanent state of post paralysis because you're preoccupied with making absolutely everything perfect?
  • 7 Worrying that you'll bore people, that nobody will be interested in what you have to say?
  • 8 Reading other peopleā€™s books or listening to other peopleā€™s talks and hoping and praying of writing/giving your own one day, but never putting pen to paper (or fingers to a keyboard)?
  • 9 Being great at coming up with ideas for other people, but lacking the inspiration to innovate anything for yourself?
  • 10 Vowing you'll show up when you look a certain way, e.g. when your skin's cleared up or you've lost a few lbs?

well, just imagine if you were...

  • āž” Creating content for your Instagram/Tik Tok account daily so you can start building connections and making conversions
  • āž” Feeling comfortable enough in front of the camera to take pictures/record videos without any insecurity whatsoever
  • āž” Never having to use a script because youā€™re so sure of who you are and what you have to offer
  • āž” Getting a publishing contract, writing a book, and sharing its content on stages all around the world
  • āž” Hosting your own podcast and being interviewed by industry experts on other peopleā€™s
  • āž” Being booked out for your services and/or sold out of your products
  • āž” Always knowing where your next client or customer is going to come from
  • āž” Having more freedom of finance, location and time than you ever have beforeā€¦

Introducing my Mastering Self-Acceptance Mini-Course

A psychology-backed digital program that teaches you how to conquer your fears of rejection, so you can FINALLY sell your products and/or services online.
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"From just 2 weeks on the course so far I feel SO seen, so heard and so EMPOWERED."

"I could not sing Ness's praises enough. From just 2 weeks on the course so far I feel SO seen, so heard and so EMPOWERED. Ness has this amazing way of seeing you, authentic you and pulling out your gifts and helping you to see them [...]

I am blown away so far. I cannot wait to see where I am [at the end.] I could not be more grateful! It came at the perfect time and I am loving every second. I am even excited to do the homework- which I think is the first time I've been excited for homework! haha. Thank you Thank you Thank you!!!!"

Lara Raybone, Embodiment Coach

"This woman has the ability to dive deeply into your essence and extract the things that you don't see [...] She is a divine light that creates confidence, clarity, strategy and steps to present your work to the world in a way that is going to be received in the most impactful way."

"Ness offers so much more than just a course. This woman has the ability to dive deeply into your essence and extract the things that you don't see [...]

She is a divine light that creates confidence, clarity, strategy and steps to present your work to the world in a way that is going to be received in the most impactful way.

She delightfully and effortlessly incorporates her spirituality, intuitive guidance, and solid structured teaching experience to deliver and execute something very unique.

This course is something to step into if you are a puzzle that's missing a few pieces. Ness can complete that for you."

Hannah Cates,
Women's Coach

"I feel so much clearer on the unique gifts I have and feel even more empowered to share them with the world."

"I'm only 2 weeks into this program and it's actually blowing my mind! I feel so much clearer on the unique gifts I have and feel even more empowered to share them with the world.

It also helped me think about what my TRUE passion and purpose is. Mine is freedom if I had to sum it up in one word but it goes deeper than that. Freedom to make choices, that's my huge WHY. [...]

Basically I couldn't be happier that I found this program and I can't wait to see where I am [at the end] šŸ¤Æ"

Hollie Clarke, Coach to Service Providers

whatā€™s inside
the program

  • 1x introductory module (value: Ā£47)
    ...in which we assess the degree to which and in what ways you accept yourself right now against a set of psychological criteria so you can tailor the program to fit you and your needs
  • 1x concluding module (value: Ā£47)
    ...in which we consider how much youā€™ve grown and developed as a result of the program and what you need to do next to maximise your chances of business success
  • 4x transformational modules (value: Ā£388)
    ...in which we cover topics like self-evaluation, awareness of weakness, motivation for improvement and self-careā€”so you become more secure in who you are and what you have to offer
  • 1x 47-page workbook (value: Ā£47)
    ...containing 9 exercises, activities, interventions, questionnaires, and assessments put together by a team of experts in collaboration with the worldā€™s top universities, organisations and researchers
  • 1x meditation (value: Ā£27)
    ...to familiarise yourself with self-acceptance, reflect on your inability to unconditionally accept yourself, and set an intention to become more self-accepting!
  • The option to add-on 6 weeksā€™ worth of therapeutic coaching to accelerate your results (value: Ā£525!)
take a peek inside
the modules:

module one: self-evaluation

Weaknesses are a part of being human, but people differ in the way that they think about their weaknesses. Whereas some people think that weaknesses are a natural part of the human condition, others believe them to be serious flaws that devalue a person’s worth. When people believe that having certain weaknesses means that they are “not enough”, they are said to have a low level of self-acceptance.

In this module, we explore the important relationship between beliefs about weaknesses and self-acceptance. We also look at how we can increase self-acceptance by setting an intention, accepting experiences, developing the courage to be vulnerable, monitoring self-rating and strengthening the self-as-process.

module two: awareness of weaknesses

The ability to become aware of and attend to personal weaknesses is an important skill. First, without awareness of a weakness, one cannot deal with it, nor learn and grow from it. Second, awareness of personal weaknesses is a prerequisite for self-acceptance. In order to fully accept the self, with all its positive and negative characteristics, one must be willing to face what those are. Third, being aware of a weakness makes it possible to seek help. Social support can only be offered if the person in need of help is able to acknowledge that it is required. On the other hand, devoting too much attention to personal weaknesses may result in an overly negative view of the self, and may ultimately result in feelings of helplessness and depression.

This module describes the causes and underlying processes of too much or too little attention to weaknesses and discusses the characteristics of an optimal view of personal weaknesses.

module three: motivation for improvement

People’s attempts to address their weaknesses can be categorised under two motivational dimensions; a need for self-esteem and a need for personal growth. This distinction is important as the type of motivation greatly influences well-being and an individual’s ability to deal effectively with the weakness at hand.

In this module, we explore what your motivation is for improving your weaknesses and how healthy that may or not be. We also explore some of the costs of chasing self-esteem (e.g. negative emotions, confirmation addiction, unstable feelings of self-worth, psychological need thwarting, inauthentic presentation and unrealistic ideals) and how to develop more of a growth mindset to avoid falling into these traps.

module four: self-care

People also differ in the way they treat themselves when confronted with personal weaknesses. In general, a distinction can be made between behaviour that reflects a friendly versus hostile self-relationship. The first type of behaviour is referred to as self-neglect and is characterised by self-criticism; the latter is referred to as self-care and is characterised by self-compassion.

In this module, we explore the difference between these two types of behaviour and how you currently treat yourself. We also address possible ways for you to increase self-care (e.g. by becoming aware of self-criticism, replacing self-criticism with constructive feedback, tuning in to personal needs, actively using social support and distancing oneself from unsupportive relationships).

AND CHECK OUT YOUR BONUSES (AVAILABLE FOR A LIMITED TIME ONLY):

Self-Acceptance Workbook

 

This resource will help you to build a healthy relationship with yourself that is characterised by a focus on personal growth, rather than the attainment of external standards of success.

It’s 47 pages long and contains 9 exercises, activities, interventions, questionnaires, and assessments put together by a team of experts in collaboration with the world’s top universities, organisations and researchers.

What’s more, it’s super up-to-date, featuring the very latest in positive psychology thinking, science and practical tools!

Self-Acceptance Meditation

 

The goal of this tool is to familiarise yourself with self-acceptance, reflect on your inability to unconditionally accept yourself, and set an intention to become more self-accepting.

It also includes some tips to prepare you for and ensure you make the most of your practice, in case you're new to it!t together by a team of experts in collaboration with the world’s top universities, organisations and researchers.

What’s more, it’s super up-to-date, featuring the very latest in positive psychology thinking, science and practical tools!

investment options

option 1: DIY

Ā£197

Wanna do it yourself?

Sign up for the DIY version and receive...

 

All Contents of the Course:

  • 1x introductory module (value: £47)
  • 1x concluding module (value: £47)
  • 4x transformational modules (value: £388)
  • 1x 47-page workbook (value: £47)
  • 1x meditation (value: £27)
option 2: DIWM

Ā£647

Wanna do it with me?

Sign up for the DIWM version and receive...

 

 All Contents of the Course:

  • 1x introductory module (value: £47)
  • 1x concluding module (value: £47)
  • 4x transformational modules (value: £388)
  • 1x 47-page workbook (value: £47)
  • 1x meditation (value: £27)

 

6 Week's Worth of Therapeutic Coaching:

  • 1x 60-minute diagnostic assessment (value: £150)
  • 4x 60-minute therapeutic coaching calls (value: £300)
  • 1x 60-minute post-treatment evaluation (value: £75)

 

hey there

i'm dr. ness

A 2x award-winning Doctor of Psycholinguistics. Having studied psychology & language for 10+ years, I am an expert in those areas, but I am especially authoritative in the spaces of messaging, marketing (and the mindset issues that business owners face when trying to share themselves and their offers with the world).

Following my academic career, I founded an international agency, Woo With Words, through which I provided strategic & executive consulting to people working in the personal development and spiritual growth space.

I’ve worked with some of the best authors, speakers, educators and coaches in the industry (including Natalie Ellis & Danielle Canty of BossBabe), and beyond this have worked with a number of influencers and reality TV personalities, including Khloe Kardashian whom I supported with a Good American campaign.

I’ve collaborated with big brands such as Coca-Cola, Estee Lauder & ELLE, and my work has been featured in major publications, including Vogue, Marie Claire, The Daily Mail, Daily Express, Metro, Entrepreneur, Medium & Psychologies Magazine. 

Accredited in 5 different modalities of therapy (CBT, DBT, ACT, CFT & SFT), my own self-help book, Express Yourself, is due to be published by Hay House in 2024.

is the mastering self-acceptance mini-course for you?

This is for you ifā€¦

āž” You're a wantrepreneur lacking the confidence to start your business

āž” You're an entrepreneur struggling to scale your business because you're afraid to show up and share

This is noT for you ifā€¦

āž” You aren't a business owner and have no intention to be

āž” You are a business owner but don't have any mindset issues. Your problem is an external one that cannot be solved by this course

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"I've never felt so supported, listen to and understood. Just by knowing you, my confidence has grown 10 fold. You've empowered me to be more, do more and believe in myself more."

"I've never felt so supported, listen to and understood. Just by knowing you, my confidence has grown 10 fold. You've empowered me to be more, do more and believe in myself more. I'm super excited that I'm on your course [...] you've blown my expectations out of the water, thank you for all the time and effort you are putting into my success!! ā¤ļø"

Jerri Jarmeh, Photographer & Creativity Coach

"I have just got off the most amazing 1:1 call with Ness! We adapted the call and went a bit deeper and more personal and it was everything I needed today!"

"I have just got off the most amazing 1:1 call with Ness! We adapted the call and went a bit deeper and more personal and it was everything I needed today!

I love how Ness is able to adapt and switch and support in so many different ways, she knew exactly what I needed today without me needing to say anything!"

Hollie Clarke,
Coach to Service Providers

"At times it was like Vanessa was able to read my mind!"

"I cannot thank Vanessa enough for her wisdom and guidance [...] Her personality is the right balance of masculine and feminine energies for me which meant I felt safe and supported but accountable and empowered. At times it was like Vanessa was able to read my mind!"

Dominique Mullally Wealth Coach

investment options

option 1: DIY

Ā£197

Wanna do it yourself?

Sign up for the DIY version and receive...

 

All Contents of the Course:

  • 1x introductory module (value: £47)
  • 1x concluding module (value: £47)
  • 4x transformational modules (value: £388)
  • 1x 47-page workbook (value: £47)
  • 1x meditation (value: £27)
option 2: DIWM

Ā£647

Wanna do it with me?

Sign up for the DIWM version and receive...

 

 All Contents of the Course:

  • 1x introductory module (value: £47)
  • 1x concluding module (value: £47)
  • 4x transformational modules (value: £388)
  • 1x 47-page workbook (value: £47)
  • 1x meditation (value: £27)

 

6 Week's Worth of Therapeutic Coaching:

  • 1x 60-minute diagnostic assessment (value: £150)
  • 4x 60-minute therapeutic coaching calls (value: £300)
  • 1x 60-minute post-treatment evaluation (value: £75)

 

seriously...

if you don't show up and share, you won't live up to your potential...

You and I both know that for a fact.

āž” You won't sell as many of your products/services as you could.

āž” Meaning you won't help as many people or make as much money as you should.

So be sure to take the mini-course to increase your self-acceptance and kick your rejection fears to the curb!

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